Stephen P. Reiling, 51, of Cold Brook, NY passed away on Friday, March 14, 2014. Stephen was born in the Bronx, NY on January 17, 1963 a son of Henry and Lynne (Cedar) Reiling. He was a 1981 graduate of Poland Central School and a 1995 graduate of the St. Elizabeth's School of Nursing. Stephen married Carol J. Kiefer at St. Paul's Church, Whitesboro on September 30, 1989. He was currently employed at the Central New York Psychiatric Center. Stephen was a car enthusiast and loved all outdoor motor sports. Stephen is survived by his wife Carol, his parents, Henry and Lynne Reiling of Cold Brook, his two sons, Joseph Reiling and fiancée Cassie Frasier of Salisbury, NY and Benjamin Reiling of Cold Brook, a brother, Eric Reiling and wife Patricia, special friends, Jay and Cindy Coombs and many nieces, nephews and in-laws in the Kiefer Family. Stephen was predeceased by two brothers, Christopher and Robert Reiling. A Memorial Mass for Mr. Reiling will be held on Monday, March 17, 2014 at 10:00 at St. Paul's Church, Whitesboro. The family will receive visitors at the end of the service. There are no calling hours. Those so wishing may make donations to the Rome Humane Society in Stephen's memory.